Archive for May, 2008

Mirroring Kindness

Friday, May 16th, 2008

coffee break ver. 1.9 

It’s kinda difficult to write about kindness after disciplining your child which is what happened just a few minutes ago. It isn’t the happiest place to be in, for me as a parent or for my child. That’s why it is important to make sure that there is a restoration and a reaffirming of relations between parent and child immediately after. It is in this safe haven that the child learns to mirror forgiveness and acceptance. This is where kindness is imparted.

I am reminded of a song that I learned several years ago, the lyrics go “It’s your kindness that leads us to repentance O, Lord. Knowing that you love us, no matter what we do, makes us want to love you too.” I have found these words so true in my own life and something I want in my relationship with my children. I have found that harsh, judgmental discipline did so little to change me. It only made my heart hard and distant. External compliance does not translate to internal obedience. It’s only when kind and tender words of genuine love and concern are spoken that one’s heart becomes more open to correction and where walls of defense break down.

I try to remember moments when I have been given mercy when I discipline my kids. Of course I want them to know justice… that there is a consequence for wrongdoing. One cannot know and fully appreciate the kindness of God if one does not have a full understanding of His justice.  I want them to experience mercy… to receive acceptance and forgiveness even if it is not deserved. The kindness of God. 

It is difficult to give something that you do not have.  I have abundantly received this over and over again … this divine act of KINDNESS…  from a  God who exacts justice but instead dispensed mercy to a wretch like me. With His help, I hope that I may be able to mirror Him to them. And if ever there are times that I don’t, I trust in His mercy towards me as well.

Under the weather

Tuesday, May 13th, 2008

… today. The weather has been predictably unpredictable here. It’s supposed to be summer and yet it rains every afternoon. La Nina they call it… and it’s taking a toll on me a bit as I am feeling sluggish and tired for two days in a row now.  I wish I could say that about my appetite (lol) because it’s on overdrive. :) I’ve been asking hubby if he would let me take Xenical or Phentermine to compensate for my craving for comfort food. I actually like the rainy season except for the flooding that comes with it. There’s something about it that makes you want to relax and eat more leisurely, don’t you think?

Home Insurance – Are we ready for it?

Monday, May 12th, 2008

When hubby was assigned to live in AZ a few years back, we were provided with an apartment by his company. One of the first things I noticed during our stay there was this thing they call homeowner’s policy or house insurance. I had never heard of this before until we were offered one since this is not something that is common neither is it required from homeowners here in the PH as far as I know.

Basically, house insurance operates just like most insurance policies. Most of us, if not all of us, who own cars have car insurance to protect ourselves against any cash outlay that may arise from unforeseen circumstances like accidents, road mishaps etc. etc. Isn’t it logical to somehow protect a substantial investment such as a home purchase from unfortuitous events as well?

We live in a country that experienced 4 super typhoons in 2006. The assessed damage to homes and infrastructure caused by typhoon Reming reached almost 19 billion pesos. I don’t know if any of those homes have any form of property insurance whatsoever. Logically, whatever home improvements done to these homes is like money down the drain swept away with the flood waters with no chance of ever recovering the money already poured in it. I also think that the present climate change challenge being experienced all over makes this issue worth taking a look into.

 

Fortunately for those in the US, this is an option that is available to them. They have a large pool of house insurance companies with rates that can match any homeowner’s specific requirements. If you are in the US & you would like to do a comparison study on house insurance rates you can check out houseinsurancerates.com. They offer up to five free side-by side quotes to help match your needs to the right company.

As for us in the PH, if these super typhoons keep on lashing throughout our land, maybe we should ask ourselves if we are ready to protect this major investment we call homes from tremendous risks with home insurance. Think about it.

Back to domestic reality

Sunday, May 11th, 2008

I am definitely thankful to God for the internet. Truly I am. A little over five years ago I lived in our house in far flung Trece Martirez with absolutely no telephone line, no cable TV, no internet at all and with a cell signal so poor it almost always disappears whenever there’s a downpour. Most of my friends ask me how I survived all that. Come to think of it, I would say it was just really grace for the hour. When I felt that I could no longer imagine another 5 more hermit years I pestered (shhh…) hubby to look for  another place for us even if we had to rent.

And so here we are in breezy Sta. Rosa, the best place outside Greater Manila to be in my opinion, of course. I have everything an incommunicado could ever want, we have a landline to talk to family, cell signal to text my friends, accessibility to basic needs like gasul would you believe, rare blackouts and no more unwanted candlelit dinners  and most of all cable internet! A far cry from my bartolina days… I am content (ha ha). What more could a girl ask for? (well how about 500 gig HD and 8gig ram  :) lol) Now I can do everything in the comfort of my monobloc chair!

Remember that cliche, the whole world right at your fingertips? That’s exactly what I have. I can be anywhere in the world faster than a speeding bullet (oops, pardon me dial-uppers, no offense please :) lol), do tons of research without breaking my back with library books, telecommute in my official flipflops and yes Virginia, I don’t have to ride a tricycle 9 kilometers away to pay the electric bills etc anymore. Bring it ON- line, that’s what I say.

Who would’ve thought that you could even get an auto loan with a financing scheme tailored just for you and finally buy that dream car of yours while in your jammies? Speaking of auto loan, that reminds me its almost that time of the month for us to settle ours. I need to go check our payables right now, I don’t want to have a bad credit car loan record, you know. So I’m going to check on that in the next tab (get it? lol) Meanwhile, I leave you with this absolutely gorgeous beetle that I’m wishing for. Isn’t she cute? If you’re a Beetle junkie like me and you want one of these badly, check out getthebestautoloan.com.  It might fast track you straight into the driver’s seat. Have fun drooling!

 

Weekend Warriors

Sunday, May 11th, 2008

Not two but three birds with one stone
It’s been busy this whole week especially the latter part of my weekend. I was asked to do another dance photo shoot by my friend last Thursday and then my family and I had to leave early Friday for a tree planting event hosted by the Green Army at the Angat Dam Watershed were hubby was invited to participate. Since we are a homeschooling family we really wanted to bring our kids to have this experience. We thought it would be a good opportunity to teach them about being responsible for their environment and how they can help in their own little way. The event was a joint effort by the Department of Energy, the Task Force on Climate Change and the National Power Corporation (Napocor) with participation from various NGOs like WWF (where hubby works) and Green Army.

This actually ranks as one of the best things I have ever done so far and more importantly, we got to do something socially relevant as a family. Together with our kids, Kairos, 8 and Aemu, 5 and some other team members we were tasked to prepare 500 seedlings out of a target 10,000 seedlings for the watershed nursery.  It was no longer about me and hubby doing all the work but we sort of did it assembly line style with the two kids packing the soil into the potting bags and hubby and I putting in the seedlings and doing quality control. My kids were unstoppable. It was tiring but it was a good reason to get tired.

Hitting not two but three birds with one stone, this is then my long delayed answer to Jan’s coffee break question about fond memories with my family and memorable mommy moments. I definitely have a lot of memories with my family too many to mention and I am anticipating there will be many more to come. For now, it would be this – when we spent our weekend at the Angat Water Dam Watershed as warriors for nature helping our environment one tree at a time with my kids making a statement as the youngest participants in the almost 500 volunteers, this is one weekend to remember in my scrapbooks. Definitely  worth more than baseball trophies. This just makes me one tootin’ proud mama.

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… be back in a bit for something else.

still rambling…

Thursday, May 8th, 2008

… just to clear the cobwebs over my head. I don’t like hospitals especially if someone I know is confined in one of them. I have a brother who is a doctor and a sister who is a nurse so most of  the time we ask them first about any medical concerns we have before making that final decision to go to the hospital. Except for giving birth, an outpatient lasik treatment and a serious bout of amoebiasis ( from drinking sago and gulaman in a village stall where we live) I hope that the only time I will find myself in a hospital again is to visit someone who just gave birth to a healthy baby. Better yet, by tomorrow afternoon our friend will be out of the OR and be on the road to recovery and will be ready for a visit from us in the next few days… That would be a wonderful reason to go to the hospital, don’t you think?

a bit distracted…

Thursday, May 8th, 2008

… today because I just got news that one of our friends from church has to undergo an emergency bypass operation tomorrow. We just met up with him last Tuesday and he was quite fine at that time and all of a sudden the news hit us this afternoon. He’s actually a doctor himself at the Asian Hospital and they had to transfer him to St. Luke’s for the operation. ( I distinctly remember the Asian Hospital ER a couple of years ago… the rows of chairs, the tv wall mount, the residents on duty and that confusing triage process that made us wait for more than 20 minutes before they attended to my little girl… I’m rambling already…). If you happen to read this please include our friend in your prayers and that there would be enough blood donors for his bypass operation tomorrow. Thank you so much!

Laying your Cards on the table

Tuesday, May 6th, 2008

I got a call the other day from one of the telemarketers of my credit card company to inform me about a product that they have persistently offered me over and over again. Quite frankly, I got a bit irked by it already and was a bit stern (taray, di bah?) with the poor girl who was just doing her job. It wasn’t really her fault but I think it is quite irritating that her company has no tracking method whatsoever on offers that their customers have repeatedly rejected.

I was telling my hubby about my opinion on how that product they were offering was not the primary reason why I opted to get a card from them and not some other company. I just need a simple card to use in case of emergency and I don’t want to be bothered by all these third party products they offer. I wish I had discovered Your Credit Network sooner. It’s a nifty site that provides you with online credit card information about credit card companies all in one place. It’s quite a time saver especially if you are considering applying for a credit card for the first time or you want to try a new one and you want to compare products and services among the companies. When you do decide which one you like, you’ll be armed with information about the credit card company of your choice and make them lay all their cards on the table and not hide aces up their sleeve about products and services you never opted for. Go check out the site for more detailed information.

So there, that’s my 2 centavos on the matter.  Hope it’s worth something where you are. :) Be back later for an IOU to Jan. Ta – ta!

InterNSD frenzy!

Sunday, May 4th, 2008

It’s a frenzy out there in the scrapping world, digi/trad/hybrid! Quickpages, papers, silk flowers, realistic stuff and lots and lots of fab elements and alphas galore. My poor hard drive :) . So if you’re freebie hunting out there go check out the DST thread on NSD freebies and have a blast this (Inter)National Scrapbooking Day. Don’t forget my little freebie down below. :) Have fun y’all! 

Celebrating NSD with a freebie

Friday, May 2nd, 2008

It’s been a while since my last little freebie and since its NSD all over the scrapping world, I thought I might join in the fun and give away a little something as well. It’s my first attempt at a template so be kind. I did a scraplift of a layout by Diane called Tea Party and added a little twist to it. Then I turned it into a template to share with you all.

So here’s my layout “Peek A Who?” and then you’ll find the link a little further down to the freebie.

Happy National Scrapbooking Day everyone!

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credits : 

A scraplift of Dianeskie’s Tea Party layout. Thanks, Diane!materials used:Michelle Coleman – Wild Sorbet background paper;Shabby Princess – Promise paper stripes; Catrine of Catscrap – explore solids fire paper; KHart – bracket piece; Misty Cato – gridworks alpha; Lili – paper pieced alpha; DST birthday glitz – journaling strips; Oulahlahsouris – staples; Tilliefaire – acrylic star; Brownie Ann – stitching; Font – Brady Bunch

and now the freebie template :   

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download here