Archive for March, 2008

happy birthday, daddy…

Saturday, March 29th, 2008

I’d like to share this excerpt from this book I’ve been reading, “Healing after Loss”:

 ” Often, especially in first grief, we don’t have the will or energy to do anything much, for ourselves or for anyone else. But as we begin to get better, we can give ourselves a welcome break from our preoccupying sadness by doing something for another. It expresses the hope that we are not always going to be stuck in this valley of sadness. Not to mention that such a move on our part can be reassuring and useful to someone else.”          

I remember these words my dad said to me when we celebrated his birthday last year, he said, “I think I’ve overstayed already, 80 years is enough.” Little did he know, that those words were like a stab in my heart. True enough, his words came to pass and today he is no longer with me. It has been one of my greatest struggles so far because my dad has always been with me all my life so the road to healing has been slow and arduous. I’ve taken little steps in that area and today, I’d like to push myself a little farther in this healing process by doing something useful for someone else in remembrance of his birthday. It might not be much but there’s a lot of love and a lot of heart put into it.

Please enjoy my little gift for you all, a simple 8×8 paper freebie called “My diary“.

Happy birthday, daddy!

click here to download:  

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Wishful thinking…Bora

Friday, March 28th, 2008

Summer is definitely here and the heat just makes me wish I had a nice cozy little beach front house similar to those in Outer Banks overlooking the ocean just to escape the daily grind. Quite frankly, I’ve never been to Boracay even though my husband’s parrientes from his dad’s side own resorts in that little island. Hopefully, by this year we can finally go there. I’m sure the kids would have a lot of fun and my son can put his swimming lessons to the test. That would be nice… 

LOST

Friday, March 28th, 2008

I was expecting my sister to come early this morning to stay over for the weekend but unfortunately they arrived after lunch. That was quite unusual because they had left early morning and it normally takes only an hour and a half or a maximum of two hours to get to our place. The reason being, they had rented a van and the driver was not the same one they usually get so being unfamiliar with the normal route they take, in short he got lost. In the words of my niece, he was “directionally challenged”. They spent the whole morning going around in circles, avoiding all the traffic they saw and ended up being in a bigger one.  In the end they had to go back to where they started and use the NLEX which they should have done in first place. Hay, naku! They probably could have avoided all that stress and wasted time if only they had a gps tracking system installed.  I think they should have stuck with the old driver. 

thoughtful Thursday – Earth Hour

Thursday, March 27th, 2008

 

Hey peeps! It’s approximately +- 2 1/2  days to go to Earth Hour. For those of you who are unaware, EARTH HOUR is a global effort initiated by WWF (World Wildlife Fund) meant to inspire people to be aware of and take action on climate change.

This year WWF-Philippines is joining Europe, America and the rest of Asia by switching off lights for one hour. Take note: lights only not appliances! Why? because if everybody turns off even their appliances it could cause a power outage when everybody turns them on again because of the sudden surge of electricity demands. You wouldn’t want one hour turn into one day would you? 

For details on how it’s going to be celebrated here in ‘Pinas  and how you can take part, visit WWF-Philippines online.

Did you know?

that by switching to more energy efficient appliances, like switching from traditional bulky water heaters to space saving tankless water heaters you are taking a proactive stance in helping our world from climate change? So do your part, be an EARTH SAVER!

Tagged!

Wednesday, March 26th, 2008

We all have a first and this is my first response to a tag by Etavasi on his blog. 

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I’m not going to be philosophical about it this time so I’m going to say I wish I had a pair of Dansko sandals  because mine are already ratty and falling apart and often make me trip when I walk. Quite embarrassing actually.  I’m not a high-heeled/stilleto girl. I’m more of a casual tees & jeans type so I have very seldom use for high fashion stuff. I’ve had a couple of birkies before but they just didn’t fit my feet. These look really comfy and sturdy and I think they will stand the wear and tear of this on the go SAHM. Now I need to go  look for that falling star… Be back later with my word for the day!

tEysTful Tuesday – Travel

Wednesday, March 26th, 2008

I had the opportunity to travel to Brunei a few years ago and I have more than a few fond memories that remind me of that trip. I have traveled to a few other countries that were predominantly Muslim but each one that I’ve been to has their own unique quirks.  One unique Pinoy cultural quirk is how we call someone’s attention. We do that by saying “Psst!” or “Hoy!”. Nowadays, in text lingo it has evolved into “Oist!”. Or what about our “tabo” or bathroom dipper and the original exfoliant “panghilod” or river rock?  These are dead giveaways that you are in a Pinoy household.

Brunei has its own cultural peculiarities as well. An example would be pointing at an object. Usually, we use the index finger to point to an object, person or location. In Brunei, it is offensive to do that. Instead, they close their hand as if giving a person a thumbs up and then they use their thumb to point to whatever. I find it quite amusing. Another thing that I learned about Brunei is that, since it is a predominantly Muslim country, alcohol is not allowed or served in restaurants or dining places. I found out later how some of the locals become quite creative on how they get around that “no-no”. One time, while we were at a certain function and having dinner, I noticed that some of the people at our table acted as if they were hiding something under the table. They had just asked the waiter for a teapot and some tea cups with nothing inside. I asked the person next to me what was going on and he said that those guys actually had sneaked in a few bottles of liquor in gift bags and they were drinking it out of tea cups so that they won’t be caught. Talk about slick and sly! Alcohol is not available for sale in Brunei, so these guys would actually drive across the border to Miri, Malaysia and buy the stuff and drive all the way back to Brunei with their loot. Makes me wonder if I could find an alcohol rehab in Brunei?

If ever you do visit Brunei, two of the must see places to go to are these places:

First, the Sultan Omar Ali Saifuddin Mosque. It truly is spectacular especially at night.

 

The other must see is the Sultan of Brunei’s Palace or Istana Nurul Iman. (pic at the bottom) 

I’ve only been outside the gate but what makes this place a must see, especially if you are a Filipino, is the fact that it was designed by our very own National Artist for Architecture, Leandro V. Locsin and built by Filipino firm, Ayala International. Truly Amazing! Go Pinoy!

 

Money talk Monday – Insurance

Monday, March 24th, 2008

Let’s talk life insurance. I used to work before for the AIG/Philam insurance/pre-need group in their accounting department. Prior to that I had no idea that there was more than one type of insurance. All I knew then was that I instinctively hid from anybody who approached me with this little black portfolio/folder and tried to hard sell a policy to me trying to convince me with their acquired actuarial acumen and the benefits my loved ones would get when I die. I never bought one even if I was already working with Philam. I was single then and the need just didn’t click with me at that time. I did get one later on thru the only insurance agent I ever liked and trusted… my best friend. So if you haven’t got either one, here’s a little bit of info (in layman lingo) to help you decide where to invest your extra money.

Simply said, an insurance policy is a contract between you (the insured) and the insurance company (the insurer) wherein you pay a small amount regularly (premiums) to make sure that your loved ones or anyone you like (beneficiary/ies) will receive a specific benefit (money, proceeds, cash value) for specific future events (coverage) in case something happens to you (sickness, accidents, disability, death etc.).

Basically there are two kinds of life insurance policies:

term life insurance – temporary protection based on the coverage period; you are protected or “covered” for a specified time frame only (eg. one year, ten years etc.); has no cumulative benefits once expired; purely risk protection, meaning you are financially protected “in case of…” ; less expensive than permanent life insurance

permanent life insurance – permanent protection guaranteed to last the life of the insured; cumulative benefits accrue and do not expire as long as policy is current or updated; more expensive than term life insurance

Of course there are sub-classes to the two kinds mentioned above with different kinds of benefits, add-ons and possibly freebies depending on the insurance agent handling your account and the insurance company you go for. You could always ask for either term life insurance quotes or permanent life insurance quotes and study them before you make your decision.

Finally, it does help a lot if you find an insurance agent you can trust to guide you through the process. HTH!

forever grateful…

Monday, March 24th, 2008

Today… 
I am overwhelmed…
truly humbled…
and I have to admit
it just blows my mind just thinking…
how could You…?
why did You…?
what for…?
Even if I know I don’t deserve it…
words fail to paint the awe that’s in my heart right now
knowing that You did it anyway…
for me.  
The price paid is just beyond my imagination…
all for love? all for me…?
In my eyes, I’m not worth it.
In yours, I am.
I don’t see it. Yet you do.
I am condemned from the beginning…
waiting for my sentence to be served.
Yet You come and write My name on the sand…
How was I to know that you knew my name?
And the stones…
What else is left to do when you threw those stones…
not at me… but far away?   
How do I repay You?
I have nothing that You need…
And yet everything that You want…
So I will give You what I have…
Because it’s all I that I could give…
I will give you my broken heart…
Both the ugliness and beauty that’s within…
Because that is all You want and ask for…
And that is all I have to bring… 
Today You are no longer up in the clouds
Where I imagine heaven to be…
Now all I need to do is bow my head …
And heaven is right inside of me. 
For that I am forever grateful…  
  


O love that will not let me go I rest my weary soul in Thee I give Thee back the life I owe That in thine ocean depths its flow My richer, fuller be O Light that followest all my way I yield my flickering torch to Thee My heart restores its borrowed ray That in thy sunshines glow its day May brighter, fairer be O Joy you seek me through the pain I cannot close my heart to thee I trace the rainbow through the rain And feel the promise is not vain That morn shall tearless be 

A paper, a digi and a little freebie!

Sunday, March 23rd, 2008

It’s my scrappy Saturday today (depending on what time zone you are in) and since it’s Easter tomorrow I have a little sumpin’  for you digiscrappers out there. I love diaries. I love journals and I love writing. I’ve been journaling for years now and I got into scrapbooking  around 1998-99 when I got married. I didn’t have a lot of pictures of myself growing up and the few that I had were starting to fade already. Yup it’s sad and  I didn’t want my family most especially my kids to grow up with nothing to look back to as well.  My solution –  journaling with pictures. In short, scrapbooking! 

I first learned about scrapbooking when we lived in AZ.  I was into decorative painting back then and I stumbled upon it. I’ve been hooked ever since. Addiction is a mild term to describe my relationship with it.  Every weekend, my husband would drop me off at the local craft store and I would spend the whole afternoon going thru each aisle in search of that perfect paper or embellishment. If I skipped an aisle, I had to go back and check it out again.  I’d clip coupons and wait for dollar days just to get a good deal on scrap supplies. They didn’t have TIVO then but I would make sure I got to watch all the craft shows just to see if they had something on scrapbooking. Talk about needing an addiction treatment

I started out as a traditional paper scrapper, switched to digiscrapping  and now I’m thinking of trying to incorporate both by doing hybrid. Now for the fun part, I have a little giftie for you digiscrappers out there for Easter.  It’s not much though but it’s my first freebie ever so be kind.  Just visit my scrap blog right here to get this.

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a line to heaven…

Friday, March 21st, 2008

It’s a Friday today. Good Friday to be specific but I don’t think this season is remembered around the world as it is here. Although it’s not the same as I remember when I was growing up, the Lenten season is very much a part of our culture and tradition. 

I remember whenever the Semana Santa would come, before the invasion of cable tv, local tv stations would be off the air and there would be nothing to watch for days and networks would resume programming only on Easter Sunday. The streets would be quiet, people would be doing their church rounds and I would always hear the Pasyon being sung over a microphone blasted thru the church patio for all to hear. Perhaps a loud attempt to get God’s attention. There would also be kasoy and suman and ripe yellow mangoes on our table. Lots of watermelon, guavas and all that summer fun feeling of simple goodness. Those were my good old days.

Today, however, Holy week has a different and deeper meaning to me. I appreciate the fact that the whole country stands still… work, politics, school, shopping are suspended temporarily giving each one a chance to step back and re-assess one’s life apart from all these things that fill our daily grind. It is a chance to have a leisurely conversation… to commune-icate with God.

It is amazing how much communicating with others has evolved. I remember those days when our town had switchboard operators that would plug those red and black cables into a thing that looked like a massive piano with little holes and blinking lights that connect you to the person you were calling. Now we have space saving small business phone systems that do the job of 3-5 people. I remember when cellphones were so thick and bulky, you could whack someone with it and you could be charged with assault with an ugly weapon. Now cellphones come in all sizes with all the G’s, X’s and all the alphabets that go with it. You could practically do anything with it except cook, perhaps? Our conversations have evolved into abbreviations, spellings and acronyms that would send Noah Webster into confusion. KWIM?

In the middle of all the traditions, the technology and the gadgetry to help us communicate, I still relish the simplicity of spending a quiet afternoon, with just the wind on my face, the grass for my bed and the clouds as my blanket…to get down on my knees and bow my head and my heart… to whisper a simple wish, to utter a silent prayer, to send a message of eternal gratitude to this awesome, merciful and loving God who has given me forever access to His line in heaven 24/7. I will never run out of load, never get my line disconnected, never need the latest model with all the bells and whistles whenever I need to make a call. Knowing this, my heart is content.